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Affection is responsible for nine-tenths of whatever solid and durable happiness there is in our natural lives.

C. S. Lewis, in The Four Lives

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We are made to seek contentment, to love and be loved.  In this one fact alone is evidence of God and the essence of our sacred being, itself.   Yet, today there are piles of evidence that we are neither content, nor seemingly loving or sufficiently loved.

“Evidence?” you ask.  Yes.

Look around.  See how few intact families there are.  See the divorces.  The adulteries.  The overt expressions of selfishness and hatred.  How we have elevated sexuality and exploited the human body.  Look at the predators and those who remained silent while knowing of their assaults, their habitual abuse.  Look, too, at pornography. The sexual abuse of children.  Abortion.  Parents killing their children. The addictions.  The “normalizing” of abhorrent conduct – the fiction of “same-sex marriages,” the lunacy of multiple genders.  And the grotesque violence.  All a product of the desperately unloved.

Now contrast these things with the God who is Love.

We live in a time when God is forsaken and destruction is advanced as a substitute.  We make Sodom look tame.

Many like to point to a President as the cause of our serious problems.  Others expect “politics” or government to be the source of our health, contentment – salvation.

No, these cannot satisfy.

Our happiness resides with us, with who we are – and with the recognition that God is necessary and the source of all that is good in us, good in human existence and in this mortal world.

It is Christmas time.  The source of your happiness is born this month.  Wake up!

Shalom.

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Welcome Back after Thanksgiving.  I hope you had a delightful respite.

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Out of suffering has emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars.  (Emphasis added.)

Kahlil Gibran

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Suffering is and has been a part of human existence since the very beginning of human existence.  Yes, we are vulnerable.  Long ago we might have learned that people actually betray one another.

Indeed, you may assume that those who hunker down in an effort to avoid suffering will impose suffering on others.  

Forget climate change.  Far more daily destruction comes at the hands of those who foolishly will to avoid suffering.

They are the ones who cannot absorb the experiences of life and the experience of other people or come to know themselves as they are and can be.  They are the family despots, the ones who exclude – keep secrets and demand total loyalty from others while giving little of themselves (having so little to give to begin).

The fear and avoidance of suffering has a faithlessness to it.

Strange isn’t it to fear suffering.  In this, one denies reality, life and the wisdom of Gibran words.

If you wish to listen to others who have something to say listen to the one who has suffered and grown because of it.  He or she gains wisdom, character and courage for they have accepted the divine gift of life as it is and have, consequently, gained peace and relationship with God.

Shalom.

 

” … the greatest enemy of the Gospel is ideology.  Ideology is a man-made format of how the world ought to work, and Christians instead believe(d) in the revealing truth of Scripture.”  (Emphasis added.)

Charles Colson

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Human beings since the beginning of time have wanted to proclaim their own divinity.  We do this no less today than we always have.

Think about government and politics today.  We place confidence in government in a manner that thwarts our reliance on God and diminishes the growth and development of our faith.

When we vest trust and need in government and politics we undermine our faith in God, reduce the scope of our human, psychological and spiritual existence and our wisdom, certitude and contentment.

The limits of human institutions has been recorded in the New and Old Testament.  We are less able to perfect the world than we think.  Yes, our ego is not a path to omnipotence but rather often a display of our limitations and our need of God.

Our political party on the Left does just that: having no relationship with God and relying on the (dubious) “genius” of man and woman – it stubbornly sells what does NOT WORK, namely: man’s reliance on man to the exclusion of God.  Frankly the failures of the Left are visible in history and in the world – now and for years prior to today.

The trust in man, politics, ideology and government is a primary source of our many present problems and divisions.  Only a fool would continue to advocate further self-centered reliance on man and man alone.  It is time to humbly admit our estrangement from God and take responsibility for many follies that this behavior has produced.

Vesting confidence in government as we do is vesting confidence in man and woman and that is one of the primary ways this nation draws away from God and advances secular existence to the exclusion of our relationship with God and the contentment and stability that faith produces.

Shalom.

 

 

 

The eye of the nihilist is unfaithful to his memories: it allows them to drop or to lose their leaves … And what he does not do for himself, he does not do for the whole past of mankind.

Friedrich Nietzsche

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The last several days I have been off my stride in posting a daily blog.  How can this be?

I was visiting Notre Dame – a place of faith where friends meet and memories are preserved; and in the preservation, the person and the past are, like Christ, alive and eternal.

This trip held time for friends and conversations of substance – human contact, embrace, careful listening, honest discourse, laughter, fellowship, remembrance and renewal.

Notre Dame is a place where daily life and faith meet – and faith absorbs its visitors.

There strangers greet each other as familiar neighbors – smiles and warm exchanges are the coin of the realm.

Standing in the very back of the Basilica of the Sacred Heart on the campus for the last Mass on Sunday past, I looked out on a church with every seat taken and many happily standing for worship – made all the more absorbed in faith by the beauty of the majestic structure, the stained glass made by French Nuns a century ago, the choir voices, the exquisite ritual of the ageless Mass – the privilege of Communion.  Many as One.

Standing there – seeing so many people focused on the reality of their faith – on Christ their Redeemer, Mary their Mother, God their Father, I was deeply moved by the truth and beauty, and hope and certainty that my eyes took in.

In faith there are no nihilists and memories are never forgotten nor misplaced.

It is faith alone that keeps us One.

This, Dear Friends, is for you.  Take heed, lost no more.  Live in faith – certainty and contentment follow – no storm or doubt may claim us then.

Shalom.

 

The object of contemplation is the whole of human reality, which, subjected to perpetual necessities of love and death, is not subjected, however, to the right of perpetual recurrence.

Czeslaw Milosz

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I wonder why people listen to me.  Perhaps it is because I think about the world, human experience in our shared point in time and cumulative history.

That is to say I have made a habit of taking experience in, wondering about what I see, felt, observed and what others encountered and how life speaks to them.

Yes, I spend time in contemplation – hence time with history, incident, my heart and soul, the individual and the aggregate, religious narrative, psychology, story, good writers, others, being alone, in the quiet, listening, in my faith, with my Self, in prayer, consciously with God.

In all of this I think: what do I see?  What is happening?  What registers on the faces, in the actions and in the hearts of others?  What gives authentic joy – makes one blissful … and brings us to sorrow?  What evidence is there of love and its absence?  Contentment and dis-ease?  Stability and disorder?  Tenderness and hostility?  Truth and its opposite?

I have been like this all my life – since a small child … because life presented incidents that questioned my existence, as loved ones died early – and far too often.

Contemplation gave some depth and range – immersed me in life’s events and living itself.  Yes, gave me immersion and perspective that regularly produced laughter and tears, grew understanding and the ability to diminish fear and shrink death to something manageable.

In thinking about life my voice had words that others received.  People actually listened to me and often laughed a legitimate laughter of joy at something I said – as the product of my experience and contemplation.

I was once a child, then young – full of strength enough to collide with life and history’s moments.  In age my heart has grown, laughter multiplied, friends became plentiful, gratitude ever present, love lives inside and leaps between me and others.

In a contemplative life there is neither regret nor blackened heart, eternity is real and close at hand.  Oddly, people listen – receive me and my words.

Shalom.

Whacked-Out.  Want to see how lost we are?  Look at the boorish behavior of the political elites and entertainment “celebrities,” and female teachers engaging sexually with their under-aged students.

Is this not evidence enough that the “sexual revolution” has worn itself out?

No more pampering of the boorish louts and misguided under-developed – children still when well past thirty.  Enough of them and their childish disposition, action and ideas.  They only succeed in making life more chaotic.

Back to normative behavior, people!

Trust in the Lord with all your heart … do not lean on your own understanding.  In all your ways acknowledge Him … He will make your paths straight.

Prov 3: 5, 6

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We have strayed dramatically from God.  Our nation has many among its elites who have gone far astray, who trust only in themselves – who have become corrupted.

In this circumstance we see the challenge posed for those who believe in God by those who are godless and hence pursue their selfish interest – power, and personal gain.  Yes, the questions joined now are good vs. evil, God vs. godlessness, belief vs. unbelief, Truth vs. falsehood.

In too many who occupy leadership positions God is rejected.  It is hard to imagine how it is that one can reject God, a God who is Love.

Think about God who is Love.

It is difficult for humans to imagine a God who loves freely, whose very nature is to love us without fail.  Why is this so?  Because we often love selectively – love only those who comply with our views, love only those who seem to love us as our condition of loving them.  But this is not how God loves.

Through we are sinners, God sends His Son to die for us, so we might believe in Him.

While we love on condition, God loves unconditionally.  But mind you this does not give us permission to lie, cheat, steal, be selfish, be a racist, advance sexual dysfunction and declare it normative, kill the unborn, commit adultery and violent crimes, deny reality, etc.

God loves us so that we might have peace, security, joy, contentment, a level of certainty, courage, meaning and purpose, and full growth.

Having been given love – we must love for to not love is to abandon who we are and who God is.

In the God who is love – all are worthy.  And yes, those whose behavior is rank, dishonest, selfish say: “I do not believe in anything but me.”  We have many of these people in our midst – one cannot yield to them, they must be dismissed, rejected for their ability to destroy is obvious and contrary to God and our welfare.

These naysayers now have greater influence over us and this culture than they warrant.  They are in positions of power, in academia and politics, in mass communication, law, education and entertainment – even in religious entities.

Time to restore God’s place in our life, our culture, our nation and our daily discourse.  Each of us bear this responsibility.

Shalom.

Sickness – Last night on Tucker Carlson’s show I saw yet another Law Professor (Ekow Yankah) spouting off as if a law degree itself made him smart, and wise.

Law degrees make one neither smart nor wise.  If you can read you can become a lawyer.  I know I am a lawyer.

Mr. Yankah was not just spouting off, he was advancing Black racism, yes – judging people by their skin color in just the same way feminists judge people by their gender.  Whither knowledge of moral philosophy, religion, theology, history, humility, good taste and grace?

We have a real problem of granting to lawyers, judges, academics, the media, politicians and (God help us) celebrities and entrepreneurial technologists knowledge and wisdom that they do not possess.  Granting those like Mr. Yankah any public forum is precisely what we ought not to do.  We have ignorance enough – no sense adding more and the division these thinly educated, misguided individuals now bring to us.

 

Knowledge can only be gotten in one way, the way of experience.  There is no other way to know.

Vivekananda, in The Complete Works of Swami Vivekananda

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A culture does itself harm when it glorifies formal education at the expense of experience, for it is experience that teaches, imparts wisdom, provides confidence, humanizes, teaches you about your adversary, brings you into contact with God.

We are a culture that glorifies education and mistakenly elevates certain once venerable colleges as being magically able to make mere graduates “wisdom figures.”  Ridiculous.  Silly.

Those with wisdom have lived and experienced.  It is in experience that we learn – the greater the challenge the more wisdom we acquire.

Look with care at those on the public stage.  Most of those who appear know little – have no particular expertise, have lived unexamined lives, are far from wisdom and maintain personal lives of chaos and confusion.  They have nothing but foolishness and self-promotion to offer.  They lack insight, are at best trite … not worth your attention.

In contrast, you are far better served by maintaining your spiritual life, coming to know your ancient text and its story.  A Christian’s relationship with God is rich in wisdom and truth – something, incidentally, that those in the public space seem to lack, or willfully neglect.

Your religious narrative and the faith to live what is presented to you are all that is needed to prosper and grow in wisdom and courage.

Shalom.

… the individual psyche is not just a product of personal experience.  It is also has a pre-personal or transpersonal dimension which is manifest in universal patterns and images … found in all the world’s religions and mythologies … the archetypal psyche has a structuring or ordering principle which unifies the various archetypal contents.  This is the … archetypal wholeness which Jung … termed the Self.

The Self is the ordering and unifying center of the total psyche (conscious and unconscious) just as the ego is the seat of subjective identity while the Self is the seat of the objective identity.  The Self … subordinates the ego to it.  (Emphasis added.)

Edward F. Edinger, M.D. in Ego and Archetype

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We never seem to contextualize the rampant disorder we live with daily in American culture or the world.

Think about what we see daily: accounts of inexcusable violence, homicides, abhorrent sexual behavior, addictions, suicides, unchecked nihilism, political hostility and abject corruption (especially among the Left), the disintegration of the family, racial hostility, the killing of the unborn, the explosion of gross obesity, social conflict, the growth in the dependent class.

We report these things as if they are each unrelated to the other.  Wrong.  These are related to one another.  They give us a clear portrait of psychological, social, emotional and spiritual sickness.

The above passage leads us to this reality: our psychological health has the ego subservient to the Self.  That said, we know that our normative development has the ego give way to the Self – and it is the Self with its stabilizing content of religious and mythological record which leads to our full human development and health.  Plainly stated – stop at ego and you are not whole.  Yes, we share an objective identity and those who live their subjective identity live an immature existence that keeps them unsettled and breeds disorder.  

Today we live among legions of people whose ego dominate who they are.  This is the root of the disorder and chaos we suffer daily.  In the ego we lose track of (or ignore or bar) the religious and mythological content of the human psyche.

Doubt this?  Hillary Clinton.  Can anyone be more egotistical?  She and her husband create disorder wherever they go.  In the political sphere, however, they are not alone.  Then there is Hollywood – Weinstein and the parade of predators.  Then the legion of married female teachers with children who sexually victimize their underaged male students.  Then violence and chaos in Chicago, Baltimore, Los Angeles and other cities.  Then sniveling administrators up and down the education chain – from elementary schools to universities.  And let’s not forget the badly compromised news media and the pathetic state of the judiciary.

Our problem (in large part) is this: we live in our ego, our lives are incomplete and our conduct juvenile, sick, shameful, violent, chaotic.  We are NOT whole … Yet imagine this: these demonstratively disordered people demand our attention, want to be listened to, to lead us.  Total bananas.

Beware.  Be discrete and discerning.  And most of all – think of the cost to your health and the health and peace of a nation whose leaders and citizens wall themselves off from religious narrative and the wisdom of ancient stories – the content of which are housed in our psyche.  Is it any wonder we see the chaos, carnage and corruption we now witness?

Shalom.

In Buddhism, our effort is to practice mindfulness in each moment – to know what is going on within us and all around us … Most of the time, we are lost in the past or carried away by future projects and concerns.

Thich Nhat Hanh, in Living Buddha, Living Christ

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Hanh makes a particularly good point.  Think about your own life.  Is it not the case that you carry the injuries that others have caused into many of your present moments?  Is it not also the case that from time to time you miss the present moment because you are concerned, even worried, about what might happen at some future moment, or about some plan you have that encompasses tomorrow, months from now, years to come?

Staying in the present moment enriches experience … it may be the essence of experience.

Carl Jung, M.D. makes the point that when faith is but an outward form of religion – religion is not experienced in our soul.  Jung reminds us that religious experience is primary to human existence and “rooted in the human psyche.” (Psychology and Alchemy, Collected Works, Vol. 15)

In concert with Hanh’s words on mindfulness,  Jung says that one who does not know religion in his own experience may be a “most learned theologian, but he has no idea of religion or education.” (Ibid.)

The point here is a simple one to state – if you do not ingest the experience of God you have not acquired what you are being offered, and what you need … In short, unless the religious experience is taken inside you have not changed, have not grown, have not acquired what you are offered and intended to have.

Short of the interior experience of religion – nothing changes and you are less than you are made to be.

For the grape to grow the water must penetrate the vineyard ground.

Shalom.

Policy Explosion – Well another Leftist policy bomb blows up.  The policy: the Immigration Diversity Lottery which produced an ISIS supporter that rented a truck to run over innocents on a New York City bike path.  One lottery winner and eight dead innocent people.

 

The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek.

Joseph Campbell

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Look around you.  I bet you know someone very well who refuses to tackle a problem they face, who refuses to grow – who prefers to stay as they are for fear of attending to their own growth.

I offer an example.  A man prefers not to stand up to others when defending himself is required.  By the way, one who will not defend himself will not defend you.

Many fear emotional growth.  Many prefer subjugation to independence.  Some operate on the misconception that being “nice” is best and all that is required.  Ah, but is there not an obligation to preserve your dignity?  Can giving-in do anything and everything dissuade those who seek an evil end, seek to dominate, get their way in all things – all the time?

Life is to be lived fully.  That is the treasure you have been given by your mere existence.  But, that requires that you grow all the way through your life, face the things you are inclined to avoid, ignore … enter the cave of your own deficits.

When you think about it – facing your deficits is an act of worship.  Why, you ask?  Because attending to your areas of growth says “Yes” to your creation; it affirms your existence.

Pursuing your full development is a positive act; not pursuing your full development is a negative act and sets you on a negative course.  Growing is an act of obedience and worship – a sign of faith, a bold affirmation that you live!  Hiding from your growth is the opposite.

Hiding from life – denies life … and problems and unhappiness follow.

Enter your cave.  Treasure awaits.

Shalom.

 

 

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